HAPPINESS AND SADNESS
To overcome sadness & to have joy or happiness … you count your blessings. To overcome hurt … learn to take responsibility … less is best. The less you do, the more you can do. The less you eat, the more you can eat. Less is more. Anger & frustration is due to expectation. Expectation comes from people who do what they like and not what is right. What you like may not be right. And what is right may not be what you like. If what they like is not fulfilled, they become angry & frustrated. If you have no expectation, you will achieve contentment with minimal. That gives you calmness that brings forth to peace. To overcome guilt, you must be forgiving to yourself. Giving others a chance means giving YOU a chance. Then you will filled with kindness, mercy, love & compassionate. The source of FEAR is ignorance. If you know, you do not fear. It’s not the ignorant, but the ignorance that’s cause the fear & sufferings of men. Knowledge is the key to this solution… a beacon of light!
The emotions are the most difficult to control.
Only Truth can overcome all.
But, no many people are ready for it, though everyone says they want it.
Let not the wise disturb the mind of the ignorant. One should encourage them according to their nature.
Truth is only for the people who can accept truth. To the untruthful, it’s only a threat.
Truth hurts when you reject it.
Truth heals when you accept it.
Truth sets you free when you live by it.
Yes, less is best …
You can get more out of less.
You eat less, you can absorb more and feel lighter and you get more space inside to enjoy more if you so needed.
You spent less, you have more money.
You think less, so you get less stressed.
You work less, so that you can have more energy to do more important and effective things.
You sleep less and feel rejuvenated.
Less expectation and you will be happier
Less friends is better because no need to filled their looniness and boredom.
The less you put in your house, the more space you can roam and leave lots of room to improve.
I can go on and on this …
The idea is how to get more out of less.
©2012 Judiann Davies-Keasey
Real Healing begins from the Self. You can heal yourself … not from someone else … you don’t need to wait for someone to heal you … it’s not about medicine. It’s between the body & the self. You have to adjust your body to your Self & not somebody else … your Self is your own doctor. Industrialized health industry don’t want you to do that. Healers do not need medicine … the true Self do not need medicine … its the body that need medicine. If you are connected to the Self, you will not need medicine. The medical faculty do recognized that.
In Ancient Time, traditional Chinese medicine is passed down through tradition not by institution that is so prevailing in practice today. True healing is Simple, effective, safe & potent … true healing is only one method for all problem. Likewise, we all feel a need for someone else to keep us company … in fact we are all alone most time.
Learn to find yourself and it will serve you well …
©2012 Judiann Davies-Keasey
HOW TO ATTRACT MONEY
Ah money. Always elusive … always in demand … and always in short supply.
Isn’t this how we all think of money?
Yet money is simply energy, it is neither good nor bad, it simply is. Like energy it always flows in abundance, its apparent lack is simply because of our inability to connect to that energy … and how we think about money is exactly what stops us from being a part of that flow.
First we need to look at how we view the money we do make. How many people go to work and come home feeling: you know, I make more than enough money, whatever shall I do with all of this? (If you raised your hand, please leave now as you are considered abnormal). Mostly people feel that money needs to be hard-earned. We need to work at it and accomplish something in order for it to even feel worthwhile. Our forefathers “worked their fingers to the bone”. They had to walk or ride a horse sixty kilometres though the bush, uphill (both ways) everyday for forty years “just to bring home a pay cheque.” So we already come into the work-world pre-conditioned with this notion that the generation before us had to work so much harder than us … and not only will we never work as hard as them we will never appreciate “the value of the dollar” like they did.
“Money doesn’t grow on trees you know.” Meaning there is not enough money and one should be careful.
What about that old saying, “money is the root of all evil”? How can an object be evil? It cannot … it’s our intentions! Our perception of lack can make us covet money. We can make money good or evil, but we choose and continue to teach that money is evil. So why is it the one thing we all want, we all believe is evil? Why is it the one thing we believe that will make our lives easier and more comfortable is the one thing we don’t feel good about having?
Is it any wonder that abundance does not flow into everybody’s life?
And how often do we look at a pay cheque and think of all the possibilities that could open before us? Instead we don’t see that pay as a full amount; we see it broken down into separate parts. $100 is going to go to groceries, $50 is going for petrol, and another $20 is going to be spent on lottery tickets in hopes to win the big one and not have to worry about this anymore.
This brings about another point. Consider how YOU feel when you hear of a stranger winning the lottery. Are you overjoyed for them? Do you share in their excitement? Do you say to yourself, “good for you!”? Or are your thoughts like mine, “some people have all the luck”; “I never win anything”; “what I wouldn’t do with a million dollars”? Just look at what free money does to a person’s thoughts. We feel that we haven’t earned it, that they haven’t earned it or “it just isn’t fair.” Can this also explain why so many lottery winners end up in bankruptcy? They feel as though they have not earned it and therefore have no respect for it or themselves for having it.
We spiritual folks are fond of saying that God resides in all of us, and some even say that we are God, that there is no division, no separation. If this were true, if we truly believed this, then why do we think the way we do? Why do we think we do not truly deserve abundance? That we must suffer to make money and that all free money should be frowned upon (unless of course it comes to us)? If we truly believe we are One with the Source this means we are all worthy and no one should hold a grudge, because the very same abundance is available to them.
So what is the solution?
Change our thoughts … recognize what we’ve been doing and change our thoughts. Recondition ourselves and help others too. Be happy for those who win the lottery … FEEL the abundance that this win has brought to their lives, so you can actually train yourself to feel what it is like to win! Tell others to be overjoyed that a brother or a sister has attracted abundance … and even in light of this idea, I can still see possible pitfalls. Let us say that each night before going to bed we tell ourselves “I am worthy of abundance.” (“I AM” … are the 2 most powerful words in the Universe) And let’s stay with this idea of money, say winning the lottery … the thought may occur that while you are attracting winning the lottery you could be taking it away from someone else, perhaps someone more worthy. Or you may wonder surely other people are having this same thought as I am, so who is to decide who wins the next big draw? What if someone else wishing the very same thing has a stronger will?
Do you see how easy it is our thoughts interfere with the flow? Catch yourself, toss these thoughts aside. Everyone is worthy. Let the Source decide HOW the money will come to you. It is enough to begin with believing that you are worthy of it. Accept it.
And for anyone thinking: isn’t this a bit superficial (money can’t make you happy nor will it solve all of your problems)? realize this is just another thought keeping you from it. Is this not another way we think of money, that it’s superficial? Why is money superficial? This is a judgment, related to money being the root of all evil. Money is simply energy. You can have an abundance of this energy or a lack.
Yes, but what about people who are starving? Do we not have a moral right to not live in the mansion on the hill with 35 sports cars in the garage? These are more interfering thoughts … as the old saying goes you cannot feed the world by starving yourself. Yet you can learn how to change your thoughts and once you are successful (not financially, but by mastering this process), you can teach others to do the same. BY EXAMPLE, and let’s face it starvation occurs because of despots and dictators who have not learned this process of abundance. It is their fear of lack causing these problems. If everyone held the belief that there is enough for all, what need would there be for war?
So why am I picking on money? Money is probably the most misunderstood energy we have. Part of that understanding requires that like energy, money has to flow. These ideas you are reading isn’t about gathering and hording all the wealth you can get. It is about allowing for abundance and to truly understand this, you must also expect money will surely flow away from you like ocean waves. You cannot fear losing what you have, because you are now learning that there is plenty to replace it with.
“You must unlearn what you have learned.”– Yoda
How long before this change can occur, before we can un-condition ourselves? That depends on the person. There will be one person out there who will read this and instantly get it. While another it will take months, and still others who will forever doubt. Don’t forget that we’ve had these blocks for thousands of years. They are now a part of the collective consciousness.
All Masters will tell you to not be attached to anything. So why does this rant sound like I have a severe attachment to money? To be clear, this is one example to illustrate the point of attraction. To truly understand abundance you have to truly understand that once mastered, you will no longer be attached to money. Because you know it will always flow toward you … and having no attachment to money means you will never fear losing it. When you exercise and break out in a sweat and your muscles are tired do you fear you will never gain that energy back? That your muscles will forever be tired and sore? Of course not, there is something in us that understands that it will rejuvenate after a period of rest. It has been proven to you time and time again.
Money is just one aspect. This opens the doors to all of our thinking. Attracting health, happiness, love and even world peace – you name it. The thoughts that keep us from money are the same thoughts that keep us from health and happiness and love. That thought is “I am not worthy”.
It is not enough to think we are God, we must feel it. ~J.D.-K~ ©
Karmic:- One of the most interesting, yet baffling, things about life is that out of all the people in the world, a few fortunate ones will touch our lives in a special way and leave lasting impressions. One such person is your karmic soul mate.
While other soul mates come into your life for intimate reasons, not so the karmic soul mates; for they are the ones who come into your life to teach you something about yourself or help you with a particular task.
While there are usually no sexual relations with this person, there is still that bond, that closeness, that inevitable feeling that this person is pretty darn special. It may be a special friend, co-worker or even a member of your family, but one thing is for sure, without them your life would not be complete.
Companion:- A companion soul mate relationship can be a relationship that is romantic in nature. It involves your wife/husband or someone you are intimate with. Oftentimes, these soul mates are not destined to be with us forever but, like Karmic soul mates, are brought into our lives for a purpose.
It is possible to spend a lifetime with your companion soul mate if you haven’t met your twin soul. However, when the twin soul is found, the companion soul mate relationship could suffer. When this happens, the companion soul mate relationship is generally short-lived or, if it continues, a non-satisfying one. However, this is no reason to jump ship when it happens. Remember, there is a reason your companion soul mate is in your life (for example, so you can raise children together).
When your twin soul comes into your life and you are in a companion soul mate relationship, it is important that you take things slowly. It may be that the companion soul mate relationship will come to an end-or it may not. One thing you must keep in mind is that ending an existing relationship solely because one feels one has found one’s twin soul is never a good idea, because over time you will realize that both associations are meant to be and both have an important role in your life.
An interesting aspect of the companion soul mate relationship is that we put more of our energies into it. The karmic soul mate relationship tends to go at an easy pace, without much effort from either partner, as it does with twin souls. The companion soul mate bond requires more work on our parts to sustain a healthy, loving atmosphere.
Twin Flame:- This is the highest form of soul mate connection. Your twin soul is your other half … to find your twin soul is like finding yourself. We go through our life searching and searching, and what we don’t realize is that we are looking for someone just like us. Sometimes, we find them in this life and, other times, in other lives.
I believe they are always around, but for some reason it is not apparent. Perhaps we close our eyes to them. We don’t listen and observe. We go through life at such a hectic pace we don’t stop and take in things that would otherwise be apparent, so the presence of a soul mate could hit us flat in the face and we wouldn’t even know it. This is sad, because we have missed that one, rare opportunity for total bliss and happiness.
Live in the heart of LOVE,
A relationship is a birth of a new entity. It involves moving from an “I” context to a “We” context without sacrifice. This doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time and patience. Clarity is needed. Both people must prepare for the experience.
A relationship cycle moves from birth through the apex of life to death and rebirth. Completion may occur through the death of one of the partners or through the agreement of partners that the relationship no longer serves their mutual growth. No relationship lasts forever. And many wonderful, important relationships last for five, ten, or twenty years.
All of us must confront the myth that being in a committed relationship means that we must be together forever. Every relationship has a beginning … a middle … and an end. The way that we end our relationships is as important as the way that we begin them. This part deals with how we move from the “We” context back to the “I” context with gratitude to our partners for what we have learned together. It helps us to separate with love.
Relationship is the most challenging spiritual path available to us today on the planet. No other path brings up our buried doubts, fears and insecurities for healing so definitively. It takes great courage for us to see the parts of ourselves that we have trouble accepting being mirrored back to us by our partners. Yet, by making peace with our partners, we make peace within ourselves and we come to experience our own wholeness.
Relationship is not just a quest for the romantic myth of happiness. That quest is over and done with in the first year for most couples. It is much more challenging than that. It is a quest for the Holy Grail itself, for authenticity in the midst of compromise, for understanding in the midst of pain. It is a shamanic journey with all of its unexpected twists and turns along the way. Sometimes it seems that our partner is more our adversary or opponent than our companion and friend. The face we see in the mirror is always changing.
The truth is that in the most profound relationships our deepest fears come up for healing. They come up because we feel safe enough with our partner to look at the shadowy aspects of ourselves and begin to integrate them into our awareness.
Not everyone is up to the depth of this dance. Sometimes we run away from the challenges of relationship before we have learned our lessons. That’s why commitment is so important.
Committed couples stay together until they have learned all that they can teach one another. They know that they have reached this point when they can release each other with love, gratitude and respect. Anything less than this is not completion, but flight.
The spiritual principles in this book will help you and your partner hang in there through the ups and downs of your relationship so that you can learn and grow together. As long as there is growth and honesty, the relationship is healthy and is worthy of your commitment.
Of course, that doesn’t mean that it’s perfect. Even in the best relationships, doubts and fears continue to arise for both partners. However, couples on the path learn to hold those doubts and fears with compassion. They learn to be patient with and accepting of each other. That is what being in relationship teaches them.
As difficult as the journey sometimes seems, it has breathtaking moments. The hard shell around the heart begins to crack open. Where fear used to hold us back, we learn to take little steps forward. We take risks, walk through our fears. We learn to trust each other.
We experience a gentleness born of the struggle, a sweetness born of the pain. There is a twinkle in the eyes that meet beyond the gravity of desire. There is an inner knowingness of self, of other: a surrender into the heart of acceptance and love.
With divine love and light eternal,
- No events.
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